“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be”
Lao Tzu quote

I get so caught up in self pity at times. Why did my husband leave me, why didn't I get that 4th baby, why did loose the life I dreamed of.

Then in this new life, I ask why can't I find a job, why are my kids getting so grown up, why did I get sick...................

I need to stop and be Thankful for the small job I have, the fact I have three amazing daughters, and compared to many I am healthy.

If is ge stuck in the "why me's" , I will never have the motivation I need to become the woman I want to be................